You still should have folded in my opinion.
A pair of 10s with a Jack kicker is not a strong hand.
You were correct to raise with it... But should have folded to the re-raise.
It does kind of suck how you lost the hand...
But let's face it.... You were probably in trouble calling that raise.
Tough one though.
Side question:
Does anyone believe that calling this raise would have been correct on Party?
I do.