Thanks nflchad, TP and shabi.
fantastic thoughtout comments, and lots I will take on board. I feel I may have gone around the houses with my original question. We have planned me doing this next year or the year later at the latest.
I feel I can make most playing SNGs and tournies, I am not a real lover of cash games but will invest a small amount of time and money into playing these, probably at a small level.
I play as most know mainly on Pokerstars and very little on Ladbrokes, and was told by an online player that I really should take advantage of bonuses, so rather than placing 10k into My pokerstars account I really was looking to take advantage of bonus whoring the rakeback mentioned by nflchad is a start and something I will take advantage of when I look into it.
To be perfectly honest, I am intending to only deposit once , lets say at pokerstars $600 and turn this into thousands, will this work well time will tell but its nice to be able to do this and with the backing from my wife. But with a starting bankroll of 10k I really feel I should exploit and rake in some free cash.
Shabi thanks for your comments that site looks good for what I want and again thanks TP for your time whilst you are away (the sign of a great person who still finds time during his own time).
Am not the greatest player in the world but we do really feel this is something we must do now in the next couple of years,I know I could match my current wage just by playing like I am now, I just need to put in the time. as for sitting 8 hours infront of a pc this is what I do now at work all night 40 hours a week and look at my pic am not fat
...........................Yet.
ps- recently after my car crash I played 8hours a day and 5 days a week for 4 weeks, I won nearly treble my monthly wage $5400 playing in SNGs , so I know I can do this.