I'm done updating for now.
A quick glance at the aftermath...*
I will not pursue this with the police. He has agreed to cooperate, so I'm giving him a second chance. It was definitely a fucked up thing that he did, but paying me back (or - when I get it, since it was mailed today?) was a smart choice. Keep in mind: If I don't get the money by like... Wednesday... he's toast.
I'm not going to ask that holdemstewart be banned - that's a decision that the site owner should make. I honestly don't care either way.
EDITED TO ADD: Thanks to those members who kept this in confidence: Pshabi, Mayhem, JD, and TP. I think I told Zy via PM when he asked, but other than that, I don't believe I said anything to anyone else. Thanks again for keeping it on the DL...
That's it for now.